Patrik Hudák
If I had to summarize my experiences from the trip to Cyprus in the autumn of 2013 in one phrase, it would probably be – powerful, fun but also highly educational.
In the course of the 8 days I had spent there I´ve come to realize that I finally understood the spirit behind the whole Comenius project „Differences Unite Us“, and also, that I would love to live in Cyprus. Mostly because of the beatiful scenery and nature, but also because of the hospitality of the Cyprian people and their culture.
The thing that influenced me the most is probably how much this trip changed my cultural views. Not only about the Cypriotes, but about the world in general. What shocked me the most was how hospitable and friendly the locals actually were, even after they faced Turkish invasion in past. Although their nation divided, they are good-spirited, accepting and friendly to everyone. What really perplexed me was, that despite all these great qualities, the Cypriotes suffer from xenofobia. I would have never guessed it after being in contact with them, even after several days spent in Cyprus.
From the political standpoint Cyprus has been divided since 1974. Not only „physically“ (=geographically) but also emotionally. Lots of students from the Nicosia Grammar School I´d talked with told me that their families were torn a part becfause of the invasion. Some of them have reunited or at least visited each other, but most of them didn´t have that chance.
That left scars on their psyche and it could be the reason why xenophobia sprouted in their minds. Listening to their stories was very powerful and it left a feeling,which I cannot explain, inside of me. It certainly expanded my understanding towards them and I think it was great for them too.
All in all, the trip to Cyprus and participation in the Comenius project was very exciting and emotional. It has certainly expanded my horizonts of being emphatic and has shown what „being a good person“ actually means. For that I am incredibly greatful.
Patrik Hudák